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Friday, March 12, 2010

STUDZ! It is what it is.....

Studz! Butch!Dyke! It is what it is. However in most cases being what a stud is labeled as and whom a stud woman really is, has a different demeanor than what is presented. One may automatically points out a lesbian whom identifies as a stud based on outward appearance. Quite frequently stud women get mistaken for men only because people overlook them because of their dress and characteristics. For a little f.y.i. it is a common mistake disrespectful mistake. Even though a lesbian whom claim masculine characteristics, do not necessarily wish to be called "sir" . There is a definite want of respect from society by stud women to accept the choice of dress and attitude based on masculine characteristics. Stud attitudes and characteristics spring from many diffirent places. Some stud women are naturally prone to masculine characteristics because their testosterone levels are higher. Some studz were brought up into a family where the majority of men were present , had gravitated more to the males in her family and ascertained masculine personalities because of the masculine presence. Some studz have either been physically,verbally or mentally abused and adapted the masculine identity as a form of protection. Whatever reason that a stud woman is who she is, they are all proud, strong, warrior women. However and whichever way one looks at it ,studz come in all types all shapes and all forms but what the basic wants and needs of a stud is a matter of respect and understanding of their choice to be masculine and the freedom to just be, either from society, people within the community and most of all from their partner. And isnt that what everyone wants?

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

what a femme wants

What a femme wants
So many different things cross my mind about this questions.

I have been with some really stand up women financially stable, fun loving, honest, hard working, intelligent great sex having women. I have yet to find one women with all that but hey maybe I'm looking in the wrong place..
Lets start with the basics like self respect that’s always a necessity .

Then how about respect for others (especially me)
and Honesty
These three things are wanted by all women in my opinion.
So on to the good stuff. We want confidence in our mate . Looks are not as big as people think its all about swag and swag comes from confidence. Femmes want to feel stable. In whatever role a mate takes on a femme wants to know she can hold that role down. LEZ B US is going to talk about the subject WHAT A FEMME WANTS. tues 3/4 10pm if its after check out the show right here on our page comments plz